Whoever knows the difficulty of
immature and adults as of its conflicting impacts on the relations and society,
and has contradictory implications in terms of health, psychological and
economical aspects?
Early marriage effects can be
both plus and minus, it may be a successful marriage, but the cons are more
than the pros. For example, we can say that a large proportion of the Indian
society represents an example of this issue. There are many situations, where
women are forced to marry at the early age in the name of society, religion and
other reasons. Back in three decades as soon as the girl is matured, she was
married to a man and forced to have children at the very early age. But, in
recent years what we can see is, girls are given education and as soon as she
finishes her degree she is married to a man; parents believe that their
responsibility is completed. Yes, it is also true that, few women's believe
that is perfect, and they lead their life within the boundaries they are asked
to live.
Perception of a girl child as ‘Paraya Dhan’
Girl children are often considered ‘paraya dhan’ and parents may be keen to reduce what they perceive to be an additional economic burden and so they turn to marrying a girl off before she attains legal age and sending her to live in the matrimonial home.
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When we think about the negative
side of early marriage, Each individuals are grown with there own dreams, dream
to fly high like Kalpana Chawla , lead like Indira Gandhi, Contribute to nation
like Kodandera Madappa Cariappa, play like Sachin Tendulkar, be a social
messenger like Swami Vivekananda, and many others. But, when they start
growing, they face the challenges that block their way. In many situations, we
as individuals live for society, what others will think of us. These makes the
individuals stop being what they are and leading them away from their goals.
There is always a need to take a
step against what you are not willing to do in life, question the system, why
this has to be done, only in this way??? You may look different, people may go
against you, but it is you who have to decide, what you need in your life, not
others. There are people who have done lots of things and say, what we have
done was right according to us, but please give a second taught, in your
process of doing right; have you hurt anyone??
When parents teach a kid, how to
study its is not always necessary to punish the kid and tell what you have done
is wrong. There always a nice way to insist and suggest what is good for him or
her. Same way, everyone has to develop a thinking process, if you need to bring
some changes then, what is the best way to do it?
Indhuja Pillai, girl from
Bangalore...........................
She answered her parent in very
nice way saying that I am not ready to marry. Her way was interesting and
influential. Her parents gave Ad in matrimonial site, say that they are looking
for the groom, for their daughter. She replied with another Ad
"marry.indhuja".
Gender-Tomboy
Height-5ft4in
Weight-63kgs.
Birthdate-26February1991
Religious views-Atheist
Marital Status-Married to self
Cultural Identity-Tamilian
City- Currently in Bangalore
Age-23
Education-B.E,
Occupation-Catalyst in a
start-up,
Salary- Overabundant for self-Saving
a little to travel,
Hobbies- Blogging & amateur
photography,
Interests- English movies,
start-ups, travel,
Siblings- Nope,
With more other details.....
Her Ad, conversed here parents,
what she is looking for...
Everyone has there one dreams to
chase and fulfill them, it is you who have to make other understand how much
you are in need of it. Never stop fighting. One of the coolest example is
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